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Reflections on Identity and Purpose

I have been thinking about my upcoming birthday. When I did one podcast promoting Persistence, I said I did not really like myself until I was 40. Before you react with shock, I will clarify.… 

Medicaid Services for Children with Disabilities

It is the time of year when we are enrolling young people in MA waiver services for children and young adults with disabilities. There are always a lot of young disabled adults who are finishing… 

I Will Not Apologize!

This one has been brewing for a while. I am tired of hearing that older and disabled people who need daily living supports are a burden to society. We are experiencing unprecedented attacks on the… 

It’s All About Attititude

  In my social media feed this week, I saw more than one posting related to the idea that what we tell ourselves about life is manifested. I believe it’s true. There are catchy phrases… 

When Things Go Wrong

So, what happens when things go wrong? I have always lived by two maxims. The first to live my life so there are no emergencies. This means that I plan everything, and even my backup… 

Intensity or Common Sense?

My intensity has been known to get me into trouble. I live with a fire in my belly. I’m a not so retired activist whose mouth goes from 0 to 90 miles an hour in… 

Acknowledgement not Anonymity

A couple of weeks ago, I wrote a piece called Let Your Freak Flag Fly! It’s about being yourself. It’s about accepting yourself as you are, and being comfortable in your own skin. When I… 

Living Authentically–Part Two

In Part One, I wrote about the fact that my parents’ belief in me was a building block in living authentically. I learned to trust myself and my instincts because they believed in me. Since… 

Let Your Freak Flag Fly!

“Dear Mr. Vernon, we accept the fact that we had to sacrifice a whole Saturday in detention for whatever it was we did wrong. But we think you’re crazy for making us write an essay…